Obituary for Louis M. DeBacco Jr. (Guest book)

Message from Kristin Kolasa

August 9, 2023 7:19 PM

I know it’s been so long since I’ve seen all of you but I think about you all often. He comes to my mind in my memories. I pray for you and I’m so sorry for loss.

Message from Kristy lively Osteen

September 27, 2017 7:02 PM

Erin, I haven't spoke to you since Louis passing, I just want you to know that we love him and not a day goes by that we don't think of him, miss him. He said I was his soul mate, he still has my heart. Blake and the girls talk about him often , Blake tells me almost daily that he misses Louie, and how much he loves him. You were so special to him. He loved you and Lauren so much. We love you all to. And we will never forget y'all. You were part of our family. And we miss you. Please pray for me and the kids, as we keep you in our prayers also.

Message from Erin Hamilton

October 2, 2017 1:11 AM

Kristy: I know he loved you and the children dearly. My heart is broke and I wish I could undetstand why, he always seemed so good, and then he was gone. I miss him.

Message from Erin Hamilton

October 2, 2017 1:11 AM

Kristy: I know he loved you and the children dearly. My heart is broke and I wish I could undetstand why, he always seemed so good, and then he was gone. I miss him.

Message from William Curtis

June 2, 2017 12:09 AM

Erin, I have been torn up inside ever since I found out about Louie's passing. Four years ago, my greatest fear was that I - not you - would be in this situation. I thought that after all you had been through you and Louie had won the battle, but I know now that the struggle never ends. In the little time I spent with Louie, I saw he was a great young man who really enjoyed life and loved his family. You think that is enough but sometimes it isn't. I wish I had words that would ease the pain, but all I can say is you are in my thoughts. Stay strong for Lauren.

Message from Sherry Pruitt

May 7, 2017 9:05 PM

Rest easy friend; I hope we meet again.
-Sherry

A candle was lit by Mimi on May 5, 2017 4:39 PM

Message from Mimi Kratzer

May 5, 2017 4:38 PM

Erin, I am so very sorry. I can't even imagine what you are going through. What a beautiful picture of Loui. You can just see in his eyes what a great person he was. You are in my heart and prayers. Please call me sometime if you want to talk 937 2564. I have never forgotten you. I will keep you in my prayers everyday. I miss you.

A candle was lit by Marcus Monaghan on May 3, 2017 12:02 PM

Louis was an amazing guy. I loved being around him because his personality was fun and infectious. He became an loyal good servant to Christ, and for that I am so thankful. I pray you can find comfort and peace. It breaks my heart that I cannot attend his memorial service on Sunday, but he will certainly be in my thoughts and you will all be in my prayers.

Message from Erin Hamilton

May 4, 2017 8:10 PM

Thank you for your kind words, he was wonderful and he loved his god.

A candle was lit by Rachelle Lindsey on May 2, 2017 1:42 PM

A candle was lit by Earley Family on May 2, 2017 1:31 PM

Message from Barbara Robinson

May 2, 2017 9:51 AM

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and this most difficult time. Praying that God will heal your pain and grant you his peace.

Expression of Sympathy

An A GARDEN PATH was ordered on May 1, 2017

Expression of Sympathy

An A GARDEN PATH was ordered on May 1, 2017

A candle was lit by Diana DeBacco and Family on May 1, 2017 4:29 PM

Expression of Sympathy

A GRANDMA'S GARDEN TABLE BASKET was sent on May 1, 2017

Louie was a special person that has always left an impact on my heart even after all these years im blessed for crossing paths with him. Lauren and Erin Im so sorry for ur loss many prayers to u and ur family. He was a wonderful man and an inspiration to us all. Love always Kristin Kolasa-Webster

Message from John Sonnenfeld

May 1, 2017 9:10 AM

Dear Erin and family... I am so very sorry to learn about your loss of Louie.

Fortunately, death is only a temporary part of life. Jesus promised us a wonderful resurrection of the dead (John 5:28,29/1 Thessalonians 4:13, 14), so we have the hope of being reunited with our deceased loved ones. In the meantime, even though the pain of loss through death may sometimes seem insurmountable, rest assured that God will give you the strength necessary to endure the coming months (Psalm 46:1).

Please accept my deepest sympathy and sincere condolences and please do feel free to contact me.

JW.org

Message from Samantha Benton

May 1, 2017 8:17 AM

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

A candle was lit by Samantha Benton on May 1, 2017 8:12 AM

A candle was lit by Angela Pace on April 30, 2017 10:10 PM

A candle was lit by So sorry for your loss. May Louie fly high. on April 30, 2017 8:44 PM

A candle was lit by Rodney Galloway and family on April 30, 2017 11:29 AM

Message from The Henderson family

April 29, 2017 9:25 PM

Praying for the family... so heartbroken....I love you Lauren if I can do anything let me know...-❤️jessica

A candle was lit by The Henderson family on April 29, 2017 9:15 PM

Message from Annette Moore

April 29, 2017 8:33 PM

Lauren and Tom, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. We are thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers. I know the sudden loss of a brother is hard to bear, but always know that God is in control and he loves you more than any of us can imagine. We love you!! Annette and John Moore

A candle was lit by Ella Hillwig on April 29, 2017 7:29 PM

Message from manuela and david curran

April 29, 2017 4:48 PM

so sorry for your loss

A candle was lit by david and manuela curran on April 29, 2017 4:47 PM

Message from Ken & Sandy Bracken

April 29, 2017 3:29 PM

Erin & Family
We are so sorry for your loss.
Keeping you all in our thoughts
And prayers at this difficult time.

Message from Derrick Ramer

April 29, 2017 2:40 PM

Louie , I'm gonna miss you for real brother. My condolences for your family Erin and lauren, and all the rest. You were a great friend. You will be missed. Sincerely derrick

Message from Doris (Freeman) Gearhart

April 29, 2017 10:59 AM

So sorry for your loss..find comfort in your memories.....hugs and prayers to Erin and family

Message from Kristy lively Osteen

April 29, 2017 12:44 AM

So heavy heartedlovers learn of Louies passing today. Louie stole my heart with his smile. We shared such great memories with him. I will hold those close to my heart forever. Louie loved the lord and he loved his family, and I know he loved me and my babies with all his heart. He will forever be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with family and Friends as we say good bye to Louie . Knowing he is with Jesus will get us all threw. I love you Louie always and forever.

A candle was lit by Lisa Custer (Best) on April 28, 2017 10:13 PM

A candle was lit by Pearl Blair-Aiken on April 28, 2017 8:39 PM

Message from Facebook

April 28, 2017 8:37 PM

Prayers going up for Y'all. Hang in there my beautiful friend the Lord has his loving arms around you and your family. Love you 😍😍😍
Pearl Blair-Aiken

A candle was lit by Angie Mae Gordon on April 28, 2017 7:54 PM

Message from Trudy Bumbarger

April 28, 2017 7:47 PM

It will be the little things that you will remember...the quiet moments, the smiles, the laughter. Although it may seem hard right now, it will be these memories of all these little things that help to push away the pain and bring the peace and the smiles back again. Wishing you peace to bring you comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. I am so sorry for your loss. With the sincerest sympathies, Trudy

A candle was lit by Trudy Bumbarger on April 28, 2017 7:38 PM

Message from Carolyn & Joe Nulph

April 28, 2017 7:10 PM

Our hearts ache with you & for you Erin, Lauren at this oh so sad time. May Louies untimely death be the awakening moment that will cause others to search out & find the help they so desperately need. I will forever cherish the conversations Louie & I had at the May Family reunions. Prayers are being said & Native American flute prayers songs are being offered up for you & your entire family.
In peace,
Carolyn & Joe

Message from Erin Hamilton

May 4, 2017 8:07 PM

Thank you for being part of louies service, you misic comforted my soyl

Message from Angela Yanoff Boarts

April 28, 2017 6:15 PM

Death leaves a heartache that no one can heal.
Love leaves a memory that no one can steal.
~Irish Headstone~
May Louie's memory be eternal.
Sincere sympathy to the entire family and friends.

Angela Yanoff Boarts (Dora Galassi Yanoff's daughter)

A candle was lit by Becky Rogers on April 28, 2017 5:37 PM

A candle was lit by Mary Beth and Paul Scott on April 28, 2017 4:58 PM

Message from Aunt Lee(Shirley)

April 28, 2017 4:58 PM

So sorry for the pain that was caused by Louie's passing. God loved him and is holding on to him so do not fear, there is no more pain for Louie.

A candle was lit by Aunt lee(Shirley) on April 28, 2017 4:48 PM

A candle was lit by Fawn and Dave scott on April 28, 2017 4:45 PM

A candle was lit by Sue Bender on April 28, 2017 4:12 PM

A candle was lit by Kandace Patrum and Family on April 28, 2017 3:34 PM

Message from Pat Boyd

April 28, 2017 3:01 PM

My heart goes out to your family. He looks like a sweet and precious young man just like you Lauren. I am praying for you. May God give you peace with the memories of your precious loved one.

Love, Pat Boyd

Message from Laurie Fallaw

April 28, 2017 2:25 PM

Dear Lauren: May you and your mother feel the comfort that only God can give you at this time . Your Cornerstone family grieves with you all. We love you !

A candle was lit by Diana Brubaker on April 28, 2017 2:11 PM

Message from Linda Glovier

April 28, 2017 1:32 PM

Heartfelt sympathy to Erin and the family. My heart goes out to all of you with tears in my eyes. from Linda Glovier in Florida.

A candle was lit by Rachelle Lindsey on April 28, 2017 1:15 PM

Erin,

My heart goes out to you and your family. May the LORD send his angels down to hold you and your family together in this very difficult time. God be with you all. My sincerest sympathies.

A candle was lit by Stacey Burket on April 28, 2017 12:59 PM

Deepest condolences on the loss of your son. May your memories sustain and comfort you and your family during this difficult time.

A candle was lit by Stacey Burket on April 28, 2017 12:51 PM

Message from Amy (Ernest) & Family

April 28, 2017 12:35 PM

Although we have not seen Louie for many years we all have fond memories of him from living in Sinking Valley. We are so saddened by his passing...truly...
wanted you to know that. Erin and Lauren...God Bless you

Message from Scott Prevatte

April 28, 2017 12:34 PM

Louis touched my life for the first time in 2014 at Faith Home Greenwood, SC. I remember it being my first week at Faith Home as a client. The thought of me hitting rock bottom and losing everything I had worked for over the ten years of my marriage including my wife was still like a flashing neon sign in my mind. Louis sister Lauren had been counseling me for about week helping me to understand and for me to admit that I needed help. I remember on my first Saturday night at Faith Home and all the visitors was busy talking with love ones. I was still alone I couldn't have any visitors for the first week. I noticed Lauren walk in and Louis was with her and I remember seeing that humble smile that lite up the room. Lauren came over and gave me hug and then introduced me to Louis. Louis openly put his arms around me and softly said "give it to God Brother". I will never forget his friendship and encouraging words he offered me so generously that night. The night I completed the 8 week program at Faith Home I was certain I had made the right decision. God had restored my marriage and we allowed God to do a wonderful work in both our lives. Louis I can feel your smiling spirit right now saying "give it to God Brother". Louis I will never forget how kind and humble you were to assure me that I had made the right decision. I miss you Brother Louis and keep that smile bright and I pray I can be a Louis to someone hurting and lost. Give it to God Brother!

Message from Erin Hamilton

April 29, 2017 10:58 AM

Your words are encouraging to me. Thank you for seeing him. Louies mom

Message from Jason Poucher

May 4, 2017 4:21 PM

Erin, Lauren, and family i am so sorry for yalls terrible loss. Louie was the best friend i have ever had in my life. From the moment we met in 1999 we were pretty much inseperable for the next almost 15 years. Louie would do anything he could for anyone that he could. If you had a friend in louis then you had a friend for life. His family were and are the type of people to take anyone under their wing without judgement or scrutiny. His mom was a mother figure to me as she was many of louis friends. I have so many memories of my life that all start with "me and louie" We used to play darts and shoot pool religiously..those were are two favorite hobbies..always competing for bragging rights on the pool table..lol...its hard to crack a smile knowing the best friend i ever had in my life..someone i looked up to when i was a teenager..is now gone. I loved louie as if he were my brother..i know he had many many friends but i feel as if we we're more than just friends..we we're family. I could write novels of stories and memories we had together..from etowah to tuxedo..to him moving in with me following a separation with his wife. I just hope i am not forgotten as we both played very significant roles in each others life. He helped me and was there for me when i needed a friend..and i was there for him whenever he needed me..i picked him up from greenwood following his release from the program he attended there. He was there for me when my grandmother who raised me passed away, i could go on and on for days and days. Louis i just want you to know..that I LOVE YOU BRO...and that you and that aura you so greatly radiated will never be forgotten brother. You touched so many peoples lives during your time here and i believe that you will continue to do so. Louis wasnt just an average person he somewhat created a legacy just by being the type of person that he was, his vibrant personality, his uncanny humor, and his overall compassion for people are qualities that are very hard to come by nowadays. I have never had another person that i have been that close to as a friend since we met. I LOVE YOU LOUIS and your family. YOU WILL BE MISSED IMMENSELY...BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN!!!!!

Message from Erin Hamilton

May 4, 2017 8:05 PM

Hi jason, Thank you for your kind words, he loved you and it was sad when you two struggled. He is at rest jase. Your one of the people that lnew him best, he let you see him. I wish he would have let me see him..he was disappearing before my eyes jason. Love you always

Message from Jason Poucher

May 5, 2017 2:16 AM

Yea sadly that was one of the main reasons we lost touch after so so many years together. He started down that path again and i had just grown out of it by that point. We did at least get to meet up at clints unexpectedly and we're able to reconcile after a few years apart. It truly broke my heart when i felt as if i was losing him to the darker side of things...although he was very compassionate and loving..he was also hard headed and stubborn...but thats all part of life..living and learning from mistakes that we make. Its really surreal to me that this has happened. I been processing it from the moment i got the terrible news. Im just glad that you know how close we were and to me that separated me from everyone else that knew louie. He was truly my best friend ive ever had in my life..ive never been close to or let anyone get that close to me since. And there will never be another person to fill that void..EVER!!! My heart goes out to you Erin..i know he was your entire heart..you did everything that you could ever do..and then some...louie was your baby, and i know this and am truly devastated for you and the rest of the family. I dont want to sound selfish or anything..but if louie still has that dart board we had in tuxedo or his pool stick that we ALWAYS went to shoot pool with...I WOULD BE MORE THAN HONORED IF YOU'D CONSIDER LETTING ME HAVE IT TO HOLD ONTO FOR MEMORIES ERIN?? I dont want you think im trying to ask for something...but i would really really love something to keep forever...he is and was a part of my life that i will never forget...i REALLY REALLY LOVED LOUIE LIKE A BROTHER. IVE NEVER HAVE HAD ANOTHER PERSON THAT I WAS THAT CLOSE TO..AND I KNOW THAT I NEVER WILL. There are just thousands of stories and memories that we created together...there was a time when it was just me and louie...people came into the picture as fast as they went out..but we we're SOLID...there was a time when we would have taken a bullet for each other...and thats what i can not and will not ever forget. And you we're there for me just as much as you we're for louie..and ive always loved you and respected you like the mom i never got to meet. And my grandma had her problems as we know...but one thing for sure is she loved louie like he was another son to her. I cant express my feelings or condolences enough through words..i try and it just seems like its not enough...like itll never be enough to console the situation. I love louie and i love you Erin. If and when your able to call me please do..my number is 828 782 4155..im out of min to call out ..but you can call in to me..if there is anything i could do for you..ANYTHING AT ALL...PLEASE PLEASE DONT HESITATE TO CALL ME!!!! From the bottom of my heart and soul!!

Message from Lauren Gable

May 5, 2017 8:09 AM

Thank you Jason, your words mean so much to us. We are glad he had such a good friend in you and your brother. Cherish each other well, because I have learned recently, that you never know. The time he spent with you and your gram was so meaningful to him and us. Your a good friend. -Lauren

Message from Jason Poucher

May 4, 2017 4:21 PM

Erin, Lauren, and family i am so sorry for yalls terrible loss. Louie was the best friend i have ever had in my life. From the moment we met in 1999 we were pretty much inseperable for the next almost 15 years. Louie would do anything he could for anyone that he could. If you had a friend in louis then you had a friend for life. His family were and are the type of people to take anyone under their wing without judgement or scrutiny. His mom was a mother figure to me as she was many of louis friends. I have so many memories of my life that all start with "me and louie" We used to play darts and shoot pool religiously..those were are two favorite hobbies..always competing for bragging rights on the pool table..lol...its hard to crack a smile knowing the best friend i ever had in my life..someone i looked up to when i was a teenager..is now gone. I loved louie as if he were my brother..i know he had many many friends but i feel as if we we're more than just friends..we we're family. I could write novels of stories and memories we had together..from etowah to tuxedo..to him moving in with me following a separation with his wife. I just hope i am not forgotten as we both played very significant roles in each others life. He helped me and was there for me when i needed a friend..and i was there for him whenever he needed me..i picked him up from greenwood following his release from the program he attended there. He was there for me when my grandmother who raised me passed away, i could go on and on for days and days. Louis i just want you to know..that I LOVE YOU BRO...and that you and that aura you so greatly radiated will never be forgotten brother. You touched so many peoples lives during your time here and i believe that you will continue to do so. Louis wasnt just an average person he somewhat created a legacy just by being the type of person that he was, his vibrant personality, his uncanny humor, and his overall compassion for people are qualities that are very hard to come by nowadays. I have never had another person that i have been that close to as a friend since we met. I LOVE YOU LOUIS and your family. YOU WILL BE MISSED IMMENSELY...BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN!!!!!

Message from Jason Poucher

May 4, 2017 4:21 PM

Erin, Lauren, and family i am so sorry for yalls terrible loss. Louie was the best friend i have ever had in my life. From the moment we met in 1999 we were pretty much inseperable for the next almost 15 years. Louie would do anything he could for anyone that he could. If you had a friend in louis then you had a friend for life. His family were and are the type of people to take anyone under their wing without judgement or scrutiny. His mom was a mother figure to me as she was many of louis friends. I have so many memories of my life that all start with "me and louie" We used to play darts and shoot pool religiously..those were are two favorite hobbies..always competing for bragging rights on the pool table..lol...its hard to crack a smile knowing the best friend i ever had in my life..someone i looked up to when i was a teenager..is now gone. I loved louie as if he were my brother..i know he had many many friends but i feel as if we we're more than just friends..we we're family. I could write novels of stories and memories we had together..from etowah to tuxedo..to him moving in with me following a separation with his wife. I just hope i am not forgotten as we both played very significant roles in each others life. He helped me and was there for me when i needed a friend..and i was there for him whenever he needed me..i picked him up from greenwood following his release from the program he attended there. He was there for me when my grandmother who raised me passed away, i could go on and on for days and days. Louis i just want you to know..that I LOVE YOU BRO...and that you and that aura you so greatly radiated will never be forgotten brother. You touched so many peoples lives during your time here and i believe that you will continue to do so. Louis wasnt just an average person he somewhat created a legacy just by being the type of person that he was, his vibrant personality, his uncanny humor, and his overall compassion for people are qualities that are very hard to come by nowadays. I have never had another person that i have been that close to as a friend since we met. I LOVE YOU LOUIS and your family. YOU WILL BE MISSED IMMENSELY...BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN!!!!!

Message from Mark Diehl

April 28, 2017 12:19 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. You spoke so eloquently about Louie, that I felt as if I knew him. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Message from Erin Hamilton

April 30, 2017 10:06 AM

Thank you friend

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Message from Deedee Holmes

April 28, 2017 11:21 AM

What a painful loss for all of you who loved him. You see the sweetness and kindness in his picture. I'm praying for our Lord's comfort to your aching hearts.

Message from Erin Hamilton

May 15, 2017 8:50 PM

Thank you deedee, so kind and compassionate

A candle was lit by Deedee Holmes on April 28, 2017 11:07 AM